words

words are easily thrown to people. when we make comments, when we speak up regarding a matter n even when we intended to be funny. but words can go so wrong that cost people their day. 'when words are sharper than swords', thats when people will remember u for what u've said. n there's no turning back.
sometimes its not even about what u said, its more of HOW u said it. now this is the one that i found really hurtful. whenever the sound of it replays in the back of my mind, it hurts even more.

watch ur words. it is easy to say but never is to be done. because we cant always afford to think beforehand. we like to do it the other way around. to those who the words are meant to, they accept it this way- it doesnt matter whether u intend to say those or not. once u say it, dat means it is at least in ur unconscious mind. n when those are in the unconscious mind, it's just a matter of time until it will be thrown out using the voice. in a simplified version, the fact that u think about it is enough to let people know that u really mean what u say.





sooooo



think before u say!!


or at least try to.. ;)