Once, I was told to just follow my heart. doing things I wish to do, and not being afraid to be different. of course, not a bad kind of different. a good one. And that's what actually I believe in. So long as you know your boundaries, why care about what others might say? Cz what i can understand is that, the others can't accept the difference you bring, because they are too used to ordinaries.
Regardless of how right you feel about something, if others tell you the other thing, u'll tend to conform. I,... will tend to conform. and then only it occurs to me that if you are different, eventually the noises you heard from others about urself will take away the confidence you thought u have, bit by bit. unless you have a real hard head, you won't enjoy being a distinct invidual anymore.
All I am trying to say is that, if people disagree with you and tell you you should do things the other way, would you just play safe n conform, or would you just proceed with your business, hoping someday they would understand once they themselves be in your shoes.
after all, you can never satisfy everybody no matter how you wish you could.
Regardless of how right you feel about something, if others tell you the other thing, u'll tend to conform. I,... will tend to conform. and then only it occurs to me that if you are different, eventually the noises you heard from others about urself will take away the confidence you thought u have, bit by bit. unless you have a real hard head, you won't enjoy being a distinct invidual anymore.
All I am trying to say is that, if people disagree with you and tell you you should do things the other way, would you just play safe n conform, or would you just proceed with your business, hoping someday they would understand once they themselves be in your shoes.
after all, you can never satisfy everybody no matter how you wish you could.
